After the blog, "Sticks and Stones" on June 19, 2014, mentioned how words and also the way you say them, can hurt others, I thought I'd mention a few healing words.
1. "I Love You" must be the most exciting and healing of all expressions! Many find it extremely hard to say. Some folks claim that "my wife (or my husband or my child) knows I love her. I don't need to say it." Wrong! I think it would be difficult to say these words too often, if said sincerely.
2. "I'm sorry." Again, some folks find it very hard to admit they were wrong about anything. If you are one of the folks and need to express that you really are sorry about what you've done, practice saying this out loud to yourself. Then say it to the person you offended. "I'm sorry" works miracles!
3. "You were right." Wow! Most of us could count the number of times we've heard this on the fingers of one hand! Be big enough to give credit where it is due.
4. "Let me help you." These are wonderful words to hear if we actually could use a helping hand.
5. "I appreciate that very much." Another expression seldom heard.
6. "It's OK." This is a small token which may mean a lot to a hurting person.
7. "Thank you!" Always appropriate if a kindness has been extended or a gift given.
It is said that kind words are repeated over and over in our thoughts, once we hear them. Imagine the warm feelings that result from any of these words! What other "Healing Words" can you share with us?
Lord God, I love you. You were right. I'm sorry I offended you. Thank you for everything!
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