Situation: Murray is a middle-aged man who thinks he is very funny. He's all the time poking barbs at everyone. He considers himself witty and sophisticated but the rest of his co-workers think he's obnoxious and avoid him, if they can. They actually hate to see him come in to work because he's so loud and angry he often disturbs the customers. He puts down everyone, including his bosses.
One time, several of Murray's co-workers spoke to the boss about his behavior. The boss sighed, "Oh, well, he said he's just loud and can't help it." And that was that.
Lessons learned: Sarcasm is veiled hatred. I don't know how we can combat it in another person except not laugh at their 'jokes.' (Amazing how the Jokers NEVER poke fun at themselves!) Look for this pattern of behavior in those who might be your friend. Sooner or later, YOU will be the object of their sarcasm.
Outcome: Haven't seen Murray for a long time.
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